Saturday, September 03, 2005

Much More Than A Twang




I realize some people have a poor view of the south and of the people who were born and raised here. They choose to believe the stereotypical ideas and pictures of what they think we are. They hear that southern drawl and automatically assume that there must be a lack of intelligence or education that go with that twang. If this is your assumption you would be wrong. I suppose some of these ideas and views are fostered by the way we are portrayed by the media. They usually show the poor and uneducated and somehow that then becomes all people think we are.

But lets set the record straight. We here in the south do not knowingly marry our cousins. We have as much desire as the next person to seek higher education. Believe it or not, well past the 3rd grade level. We appreciate art... Not just paintings of Elvis or dogs playing poker on black velvet. But the real stuff that hangs in museums. We can and do appreciate classical music. Although personally, I appreciate the finer classical old rock. We enjoy reading...And more profound things than just the national Enquirer.

While we may like life moving a little slower sometimes....We love watching the sun go down on the river. We love good old fashioned vegetables out of a garden and home cooking. We have a strong sense of family and community. As a group we sometimes are wearily curious of strangers. But usually our manners kick in and we will open ourselves up to you and show you warmth and hospitality.

We may not all be as cultured as others out there....But we are usually able to see our flaws and short comings and find the humor in them. We are taught at a young age manners and respect of others....And would never insult anyone by pointing out their lack of the above. We are not the inbred thieves that some would like to think we are. We are honest and hard working. I take pride in where I live. I'm proud of the kind warm generous people that live here. Keep an open mind about people different than yourself. Come and meet us...see for yourself...we wont hold it against you just because just because you talk funny.

12 comments:

DS Irvin said...

Here is the fundemental difference between the south and the north. I was turning left at an intersection and a pedestrian jumped on my bumber and called me all sorts of names because I had Jersey plates in New York and therefore, as a native New Yorker, he felt it was his right to cross before I turned.

Jen said...

Jef
Thank you.



illimitable voices
Sweetie..."Bumper Jumpers" are everywhere, north and south. lol

timmy G said...

Hye, i Like the point you are trying to mkae, and that is the smae with candian stereotypes, a lot of it is for fun and jokes nowadays, but i mean, not all of us live in igloos, in fact i dont know a single canadian that lives in an igloo, and as for pet bavers, again i dont think that is a very sane thing, so n e wyas stereotypes ruin reps, and make things seem worse then they are

Anonymous said...

No other guy will tell you this, but...I think I could take you much more seriously if I didn't see your breast implants in your profile pic.

Jen said...

timmy G
I know what you mean..People see you the way they want to sometimes. Its easier to think you are the sterotype than to take a closer look and realize that there maybe more there.

Jen said...

Anonymous
Its hard to take the advise of someone who is only anonymous. But thanks for the words of wisdom. Good thing I didnt use the topless one then huh...whewww that was close.

Jen said...

exMI
Thank you! : )

Forzavryheid said...

ANONYMOUS: Give a name buddy.

Maybe people will take YOU seriously if you did so.

Jen, hierdie oke is n doos.

Chat to you later, sweetheart.

Jen said...

Adrian
Thanks sweetie..The Afrikaans was a nice touch too by the way. It made me laugh.
lief vir jou

Three Score and Ten or more said...

To add to your good feeling, most etymologists agree that the current southern accent is much closer to the British English of Shakespeare than the modern semi-classical English uses now in most performances. We're all proud of the good things.

timmy G said...

Anonymous always strikes without a name because they are to scared to tell us who they are because they will know we will find them out to be a loser (if that made n e sense) i am tired and have to go back to gay school 2morrow

Jen said...

timmy G
Thank you. Sadly,I suppose its more important to some not what you have to say, but how you look while saying it.